I believe you are mostly right... but all the things you are saying are not being taught in abstinence only programs. It needs to be explained by that it is not a good choice at a young age, but if you choose to do it at very lease take preventative measures to protect yourself. This should be taught at home and wherever else the oppurtunity presents itself. Clearly these young women can't hear it enough.. Abstinence only is an irresponsible message if sent alone, young women want to know more and what they are not taught they will try to find out on their own.